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Things to do and avoid when facing your ex again

Facing your ex again Do you dread the thought of facing your ex again? Bumping into your ex is not a happy thought at all. If you think that you have moved on and there is nothing between the two of you then you need to think again. Here are a few things that you need to do and avoid when facing your ex again. Things to do Plan things separately If you work in the same office or have common friends then the chances of bumping into each other increases. If you are invited to the same party or event it is best to plan your entries separately so that you do not bump into each other. If your common friends are hosting a party you can politely ask them about the time so that you can plan separate entries and avoid bumping into each other. Be warm and friendly If you do happen to meet your ex at an event, you can still be warm and nice instead of giving him/her the cold shoulder. You can greet each other warmly and chat up on common things like the weather or food. Talk wit

Top job search mistakes

Searching for a job can be both exciting and bewildering. You will have a better chance of success if you avoid simple job search mistakes that most candidates end up doing. Ignoring the network  – The biggest blunder that most candidates hunting for a job do is not building a strong network of people. You may be surprised to know that most people get hired through connections and referencing. When you network you create mutually beneficial relationships with others. It is best to invest in this people skill as it can help you succeed easily. Start connecting with friends and colleagues you have worked with before so that you can build a network. Meet people for a cup of coffee or dinner on the weekend so that you can strengthen the relationship. When you start looking for a job change start connecting with your network and ask them to provide for references. Do remember to help people in the network when they need your help. Forgetting to do your homework – Homework matters a